What do you think???????

My bf doesn’t do anything. He just watches movies and dramas and schmooze around. He is intelligent but he doesn’t work hard or try to. He is 24. I want him to start getting serious about life. He has made me his weakness and wants to have straight 3-4 hours conversation everyday. It’s a long distance relationship of 3 years. I am becoming worried of his so dormant life, I want him to be busy doing constructive stuff, this is whats gonna seriously turn me on. I have started to get bored of his ranting about politics and life and bla bla. I have quit talking to him, and have told him that we would talk once in a while and meanwhile u should study and do some constructive work rather than being so lazy and idle. He was obviously hurt and I feel bad :(.